I read the most depressing article on five reasons men leave a relationship even when things are going really well. The most depressing thing was that it absolutely had characterized the behavior I see men exhibit when I look around and see their actions on the dating and friendship field.
For example:
Women get serious when they find the right man, men get serious with who ever is in front of them when they decide it is time to settle down. This makes women pretty interchangeable as far as men are concerned.
Men pretty much know immediately whether they are serious or a woman has potential right at the beginning, much like a car, but will stay in the relationship because it is amusing, they are getting their physical needs met and there isn't anything better at the moment. They see something better and they are out of there and on to the next thing. Their reasoning is they were "in the moment".
If you keep a man's belly full, they are getting enough action and the remote is never far from their hand they think they are in a deep and meaningful relationship. I passed this insight on to a male friend of mine who laughed not because it wasn't true, but because it was sooooo true.
I'm thinking that I should borrow a page from the book of male dating and play the field, definitely not commit to anything exclusive, require they keep me amused, not tax me with their problems, and as long as they are easy enough on the eye and take care of themselves I will stick around till something better comes along.
Hey, I was "in the moment".
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